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Join Dr. Carter for his brand new course This is Me, and learn how to set boundaries with the controllers in your life

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What's Included In This Course?

  • This course includes 5 Modules, each with 4-6 unique lessons that will address different aspects of managing and setting boundaries

  • Inside each Module we will have 4-6 Lessons, accompanied by a video in each lesson made by Dr. Carter

  • An extensive workbook with questions that will encourage you to take ownership of the information so that yo ucan make it your very own.

Three Roadblocks This Course Will Help You Overcome:

  • The pressure to live inside groupthink

  • The self-serving demands of controlling thinkers

  • The controller's unhealthy use of anger

Three Problems This Course Will Help Solve:

  • How to take charge of your standards and values

  • Remaining assertive even as a controller is aggressive

  • How to stay strong when controllers use judgment and shame

3 Questions the Course Will Help Answer:

  • What does it mean to live with my self-respect intact?

  • How do I remain confident when the controller is displeased with my boundaries?

  • What are my best responses when the controller misinterprets me?

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  • What is this course all about?

    This course is all about establishing boundaries with the controllers in your life. Controllers and angry individuals don't want you to have relationship boundaries but they are important nonetheless. Inside this course we will be talking about how you can lock in on your ideas of the priorities and preferences that need to guide you as you live your own unique life. We are going to talk about having an undertanding of the people who blur those boundaries so you can move beyond the unhealthy patterns they will invite you into. We will also talk about how you can proceed with your good preferences and boundaries leading the way so you don't collapse under their pressure to live according to what they deem to be the most appropriate way to do so.

  • Is this course self-paced or do I need to be available at specific times?

    Great question! This course is 100% self-paced so you can access the material on your own time and at your own speed.

  • Who is this course designed for?

    This course is designed for someone who has individuals in their life left and right who are controlling and you are ready to do something about that.

  • How many modules, videos, lessons and hours are included in this course?

    The course consists of five distinct modules, each addressing a particular topic. The modules consist of anywhere from 5-9 lessons. The lessons are presented with a written format and a video accompanying each written lesson. Most video lessons are approximately seven minutes. In total the webinar features almost 5 hours of videos. The central feature of the webinar is the Personal Reflection questions at the end of each video. These questions guide the student toward personalized pragmatic applications drawn from each lesson. It is crucial to understand that the lessons are more than just talking points, but designed for individualized personal introspection.

  • What if I sign up and decide this course is not for me?

    We understand that not every course is right for everyone. Refunds will only be offered for courses that have had 20% or less completed. Refunds will be prorated based on the amount completed. Purchases that are older than 6 months are not eligible for refunds. If you have questions about refunds, feel free to reach out the Dr. Carter directly via email at support@survivingnarcissism.tv

Please note, the payment on your charge will show up as “InfluenceLogic”, a marketing company, so there will be no trace of this course for your controller to see on your billing statement.

Meet Your Teacher

Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who has semi-retired to Waco, Texas. In the past 40+ years he has conducted more than 65,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars.  He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder. In 2018 he founded the Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel and the Dr. Les Carter YouTube channel. His words: “In my history of conducting anger workshops, it became abundantly clear that self absorption, control cravings, and the lack of empathy were at the base of most interpersonal problems. So my therapeutic focus went deeper into the direction of understanding narcissism as a means of finding resolution to mood and relationship strains.” YouTube has provided the perfect platform for communicating his insights about narcissism. His goal is simple: explain narcissism and its powerful impact upon relationships, then offer alternatives for healthy living.

Course Curriculum

  • 1

    Welcome to the course!

    • Welcome to This is Me

    • How to use this course

  • 2

    Module 1: Why Do We Need Boundaries?

    • Lesson 1.1: Harmonizing Would Be Nice, But...

    • Lesson 1.2: The Pressure to Stay Inside Groupthink

    • Lesson 1.3: "What" is Required Without the "Why"

    • Lesson 1.4: It's My Responsibility to be in Charge of Me

  • 3

    Module 2: Foundational Beliefs for Establishing Boundaries

    • Lesson 2.1: I Am a Person of Dignity

    • Lesson 2.2: It is Both Good and Necessary to be Distinct

    • Lesson 2.3: I Am Limited

    • Lesson 2.4: To Love Others, I First Need to Love Myself

  • 4

    Module 3: Maneuvering Through Conflict and Anger

    • Lesson 3.1: Becoming Honest About Anger You Have Suppressed

    • Lesson 3.2: Seeing the Futility of Aggressive Anger

    • Lesson 3.3: Not Playing Passive-Aggressive Games

    • Lesson 3.4: Embracing Assertiveness

    • Lesson 3.5: Knowing When to Release Anger

  • 5

    Module 4: Standing Up to the Controllers

    • Lesson 4.1: Standing Up to Intrusive Controllers

    • Lesson 4.2: Standing Up to the Controllers Ridicule

    • Lesson 4.3: Standing Up to the Label of Selfishness

    • Lesson 4.4: Standing Up to the Requirement of Enabling

    • Lesson 4.5: Standing Up to the Controllers Dishonesty

  • 6

    Module 5: Healthy Boundaries Comes From Inner Confidence

    • Lesson 5.1: Others Do Not Have the Final Word About You

    • Lesson 5.2: I Will Not Collapse Under Your Judgements

    • Lesson 5.3: Confidence is Not the Biproduct of Being Ideal

    • Lesson 5.4: I Trust Myself

    • Lesson 5.5: Why Boundaries Make Sense

    • Lesson 5.6 Final Thoughts